Two rants.

What is it about having a penis that makes males think they're superior? I'm truly curious.
Maybe it's just me, but I am slightly appalled when I have a guy assuming that I'll have sex with him because... I don't know why he thought so. Because I owe it to him supposedly. How on earth would one get that debt? Sorry I wear low cut shirts and you like my eyes, I'll make it up to you by having sex with you? I think not. I don't owe you a damn thing for being myself, and you thinking you're so entitled is sickening. Get over yourself.

I know everyone says it a few hundred times, but I think I am done trying to get other people's approval. I naturally have huge, curly, poofy hair. For years I have either straightened it or pulled it into a ponytail or bun because I hated it. But, why do I try so hard? Whoever said having naturally poofy hair was a bad thing? And for years I have had the never ending battle with my body in the mirror. I'm not skinny; My collarbones don't stick out and you can't put your hands around my waist. I have curves. Real curves. And I'm done apologizing for it. I love my body, and I'm done worrying about if you do to. If you don't, fuck you. And if you bitch about it, get out of my life.
I want to look good for me, not someone else. I'm done putting in an hour of work to flatten my hair and paint my face up like some girls do. If I'm putting in time, I want to look how I want to look, not how you think I should look. If a guy notices me, and likes me when I look how I want to be, he's a keeper. I'm not going to change my appearance to find mister right, because if he's making me change... That mister right would be so wrong.